The book I've recently read (and still reading for the third time) is The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. Yup it is just recent but it became one of my favorite because I learn a lot from it. One of my favorite and one that helped me a lot is the habit of being PROACTIVE, I know most of you have heard this or somebody will say that they already have this but what I'm saying is the real proactive where in you are responsible for almost all the things that is happening in your life (in numbers I think 90%) that is the thought. I also thought that I have this kind of habit and I'm partially right because I really do have this but not practicing it most of the time and just focusing on my lazy guy habits. >:D
My Second favorite is the principle of EMPHATIC LISTENING. Yup like the first one most of you heard it before and like being proactive this is also deeper than most of us thought. If anyone of you reading here that usually have arguments with people, usually gives advice to people or usually judge people very early I recommend that you learn and do this habit because like the 3 things that I said above most of the time I do that and this emphatic habit made me realized that I had became a nagger for a very long time. :O
I highly recommend this book to all of you who want to be more effective. What I said above are just tiny bits of the learning that you will get from the book. Plus the author gives examples that are related to the problems most of us have and these are really practical. I'm reading this again and again because it is really easy to forget this habits and go back the old ones, and I also recommend that YOU!, yes you who will buy this book so this habits would be natural to YOU. :)
Oh I forgot to say I'll give stars for the books I've read so the rating will be from 1 to 5. This book will be rated 5 :).
( For those want to check the book and the habits overview go to this site https://www.stephencovey.com/7habits/7habits.php
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